We all fancy others to like us. Deep down in our hearts, we all want to feel encouraged, appreciated, and, most importantly, loved. Yet, unluckily, for many of us, this is much easier said than done. We can feel like we constantly fall short in winning this love that we so desire to feel. But there are simple keys to become irresistible attractive.
The money supports, but again, you won’t find a millionaire irresistible if they have a disgusting personality. Would you want to be with that person if they were stripped of their riches?
The same goes for a group of other characters: great body, great hair, great eyes, great house, great intellect, great anything. Take the fame out of the equation and ask yourself whether you could still love them.
According to personal growth blogger John Gorman, you only need three simple things to become irresistible and attract someone whose attention you crave.
Simple Keys to Become Irresistible Attractive
Empathy
That’s when you care enough for someone else you can virtually feel their pain. It is less about pity and more about empathy. Showing empathy lets someone know that they value, especially when they are down. It implies that you want to hear their opinions.
But it isn’t sympathy, which is more distant, and it isn’t running around attempting to fix all the difficulties in someone’s life, because, maybe they don’t want you to. When I notice truly empathetic people, I see people who consider, but also people who suggest to us that sometimes it’s ok to be still with someone else and not invade their space.
This is the unique capability to know the world through others’ eyes. Empathy breeds kindness, association, and love.
Curiosity
This one is in the same boat as empathy. Being curious about someone else confirms that you care and are involved in them as an individual. As long as you are not being overly interfering, curiosity will let that someone know that you appreciate them and their world.
People who manifest curiosity can become mentors but they must first always have an open mind. They first try to listen, learn, and to engage. Everyone wants people around themselves to remain curious and observing the world through pure eyes.
Humility – Simple Keys to Become Irresistible Attractive
Like Mother Theresa or the Dalai Lama. These incredible do-gooders didn’t require much more than their humility to become cherished and inspirational all over the world. Humility is that simple presence that projects onto others, a feeling that you don’t think you are better than them or more exemplary. It shows that you hold everyone equal in your eyes.
People who manifest humility let their work speak for itself. Humility reduces confusion and nurtures love.
You may have marked the three are closely correlated. In short, Empathy is the heart. Curiosity is Mind. Humility is a soul.
Empathy is how to value the connections between yourself and others. Curiosity is how you evaluate others. Humility is how you value yourself.
These three attributes are keys to becoming passionate, smart and remarkable. And these are simple qualities you must develop in yourselves.
